Wife
has to follow the vows that husband takes. These are the duties of
chaste women. Following the vow means to support his decisions, his
desires, in all endeavors. Never to disagree or argue.
If there
is some dispute, some disagreement, it is the wife who must take the
submissive role, even if she is convinced she is right, even if in the
end she seems to be right, she must always support her husband's
position with a favorable attitude. In other words SHE MUST ASSURE THAT
NO UNPLEASANT FIGHT ENSUES. THIS IS HER *DUTY*. To back down when a
disagreement arises so that the peace of family life is not disturbed.
What is the use of fighting and arguing like anything to win over some
small insignificant point at the cost of loosing the marriage all
together?
IF THE GIRLS CAN BE
TRAINED NICELY IN THIS WAY, THEIR FUTURE HOMES WIL BE PEACEFUL. When
there is no fight, automatically the Goddess of Fortune, Laksmi Devi,
will come and live in that home. Lakshmi Devi always serves Narayana in
submissive mood, so whoever serves their husband following footsteps of
Lakshmi Devi, She will be pleased.Then household life will be peaceful.
These instructions by Narada Muni are the keys to creating a home-life
situation that no man will ever want to leave. The idea presented here
is that...,
1. it is the duty of the wife to make the home and her self as attractive to her husband as she can
2.she should touch her husband’s feet and greet him with folded hands.
If a man’s dealings with his wife is that he always sees
3.her smiling face and
4.always hears sweet soothing words,
5.she is always nicely dressed,
6.and the home is always clean, his mind will become peaceful and he will feel happy with his wife.
7.She should always be supportive of his decisions,
8.always attentive to him when he speaks. And
9.with a pleasing attitude she waits on him hands and foot, eager to carry out his desire.
What man would ever reject such a wonderful and loving wife and such a
pleasing home life? What man would ever treat such a SURRENDERED WIFE
unkindly? That is why this * BEHAVIOR* OF WIFE is the KEY to a truly
happy and peaceful family life. This is the way in which she can conquer
the man's heart. A wife wants her husband to feel affection for her,
and this is how she can do so. WIFE SHOULD NEVER GIVE THE HUSBAND ANY
REASON TO BE ANGRY WITH HER. That is an ideal wife. One whose home will
always be peaceful.
<<lines selected from Srimad Bhagavatam
Canto 7:Chapter 11::Verses 25, 26,27.
If there is some dispute, some disagreement, it is the wife who must take the submissive role, even if she is convinced she is right, even if in the end she seems to be right, she must always support her husband's position with a favorable attitude. In other words SHE MUST ASSURE THAT NO UNPLEASANT FIGHT ENSUES. THIS IS HER *DUTY*. To back down when a disagreement arises so that the peace of family life is not disturbed. What is the use of fighting and arguing like anything to win over some small insignificant point at the cost of loosing the marriage all together?
IF THE GIRLS CAN BE TRAINED NICELY IN THIS WAY, THEIR FUTURE HOMES WIL BE PEACEFUL. When there is no fight, automatically the Goddess of Fortune, Laksmi Devi, will come and live in that home. Lakshmi Devi always serves Narayana in submissive mood, so whoever serves their husband following footsteps of Lakshmi Devi, She will be pleased.Then household life will be peaceful.
These instructions by Narada Muni are the keys to creating a home-life situation that no man will ever want to leave. The idea presented here is that...,
1. it is the duty of the wife to make the home and her self as attractive to her husband as she can
2.she should touch her husband’s feet and greet him with folded hands.
If a man’s dealings with his wife is that he always sees
3.her smiling face and
4.always hears sweet soothing words,
5.she is always nicely dressed,
6.and the home is always clean, his mind will become peaceful and he will feel happy with his wife.
7.She should always be supportive of his decisions,
8.always attentive to him when he speaks. And
9.with a pleasing attitude she waits on him hands and foot, eager to carry out his desire.
What man would ever reject such a wonderful and loving wife and such a pleasing home life? What man would ever treat such a SURRENDERED WIFE unkindly? That is why this * BEHAVIOR* OF WIFE is the KEY to a truly happy and peaceful family life. This is the way in which she can conquer the man's heart. A wife wants her husband to feel affection for her, and this is how she can do so. WIFE SHOULD NEVER GIVE THE HUSBAND ANY REASON TO BE ANGRY WITH HER. That is an ideal wife. One whose home will always be peaceful.
<<lines selected from Srimad Bhagavatam
Canto 7:Chapter 11::Verses 25, 26,27.
